Every December, so many women feel that quiet pressure building in their chest—the urgency to fix the year, to “start fresh,” to somehow become a completely different version of themselves by January 1st.
But here’s the truth your subconscious already knows:
You don’t need to start over.
You need to integrate.
What if you’re not stuck…
What if you’re simply anchoring into the new version of yourself?
Healing isn’t always about digging up the past. Sometimes, it’s about holding steady in the present while the rest of you catches up.
That’s the work of becoming.
Maybe you’ve begun setting boundaries where you used to overextend.
Maybe you no longer find comfort in certain conversations.
Maybe the things you used to tolerate now feel intolerable.
And maybe—just maybe—you’ve started to feel alone in your growth.
Read MoreThe holidays are often described as a time of joy, connection, and family.
But for many women—especially those doing the work to heal generational trauma—the holidays can feel more like emotional landmines. You walk into a room filled with people who knew the old you, expect the same reactions, and don’t see how hard you’ve worked to change.
And suddenly, you’re 10 years old again—shrinking, fawning, or fuming inside.
Read MoreHealing isn’t a single event. It’s a rhythm. A spiral.
You’ll circle back to the same themes, but from a higher perspective.
You’ll revisit old triggers, but with a calmer nervous system.
You’ll fall down—and realize you get up faster now.
This is what healing actually looks like.
Read MoreFreeze is one of the body’s trauma responses—just like fight or flight. But unlike fight (anger) or flight (anxiety), freeze is silent. It looks like scrolling your phone. Napping instead of finishing a project. Feeling like you “just can’t.”
You’re aware of the task. You want to do it.
But something inside you won’t move.
That “something” is not your fault.
It’s protection.
It’s about being more of yourself.
At this point in your journey, healing isn’t about fixing—it’s about remembering.
You already are the woman your younger self needed.
Now, the invitation is to become the woman your soul came here to be.
That requires a different kind of fuel.
Not adrenaline. Not approval. Not overgiving.
But soul-sourced energy.
Read MoreSo many women I work with think they’re doing something wrong because they can’t keep up with the pressure. They’re tired of being tired. Tired of overreacting. Tired of constantly holding it together.
But here’s what they don’t realize:
Your nervous system isn’t broken.
It’s overburdened.
And it’s doing everything it can to protect you.
Whatever your vision, this phase of the journey asks:
Will you act like the empowered woman you’ve become?
Because it’s not about fixing anymore.
It’s about building.
You’ve healed.
Now you get to create.
Why do we stay? Because the subconscious believes this dynamic is “normal.” If you grew up around criticism or chaos, your subconscious wires that in as love. It’s not your fault—but it is your opportunity to break the cycle.
Read MoreThis is why people often “attract the same partner in different clothing.” Your subconscious is trying to resolve the past by bringing familiar scenarios back to the surface. But healing doesn’t come from repeating the cycle—it comes from reprogramming it.
Read MoreHealing these patterns means going deeper than surface coping strategies. With RRM, we guide the subconscious into a safe space where these memories can surface gently. The energy of the wound is released, and then you reprogram your mind with affirmations that align with peace.
Read MoreIt’s easy to think that once we’ve had a breakthrough, life should be smooth.
But you’ve probably noticed: the real expansion happens after the insight.
It happens:
When you pause mid-reaction and ground instead of spiral.
When you repair with your child instead of numbing or blaming.
When you name what’s true, without shaming yourself for having needs.
That’s mastery.
Read MoreWhat if the most powerful parenting strategy wasn’t something you did to your child…
…but something you did within yourself?
If you’ve ever snapped when you didn’t want to, felt deep guilt after losing patience, or worried that your trauma is leaking into your child’s life — you’re not alone.
In fact, you’re likely doing better than you think.
Read MoreYou’ve completed the Regressive Release Method (RRM). You’ve released, reprogrammed, and reconnected with a version of yourself you hadn’t seen in years.
So what comes next?
Read MoreIf you’ve ever been told you’re scattered, unmotivated, or disorganized — you’re not alone.
And if you’ve started believing it, you’re not broken.
You’re just running a different kind of system — one that isn’t designed for control and pressure… but for creativity, flow, and intuitive brilliance.
That’s the gift — and the challenge — of an ADHD-style brain.
I call it a supercomputer with specialized upgrades.
Read MoreYou don’t need to be perfect to be a present mom.
Let’s say that again! You don’t need to be perfect to be a present mom.
But you do need to be regulated.
And that’s the part no one teaches us.
We talk a lot about tantrums, meltdowns, defiance, and overwhelm — but what if those aren’t just “kid problems”?
What if they’re messages… signals that our children are absorbing more from our nervous system than from our words?
Flow isn’t about hustle. It’s not about productivity or peak performance. Flow is the natural state of emotional and spiritual alignment—when your nervous system feels safe, your subconscious is clear, and your energy isn’t being hijacked by old fears.
But most of us weren’t taught that state was possible—let alone sustainable.
Read MoreTrauma isn’t just about what happened—it’s about what didn’t happen. The love that wasn’t consistent. The validation that wasn’t offered. The safety that was never felt.
Children absorb their world not through logic, but through felt experience. If you were shamed for speaking up, scolded for expressing needs, or expected to be “the strong one,” your subconscious learned:
Read MoreWhen children are criticized, emotionally neglected, or made to feel responsible for adult emotions, they internalize the belief that they’re fundamentally flawed. This forms a subconscious identity that follows them into adulthood.
Reparenting is about breaking that cycle. Through consistent, nurturing self-talk, subconscious rewiring, and nervous system regulation, you re-teach your body and brain: "I am lovable. I am worthy. I am safe."
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