You don’t need to be perfect to be a present mom.
Let’s say that again! You don’t need to be perfect to be a present mom.
But you do need to be regulated.
And that’s the part no one teaches us.
We talk a lot about tantrums, meltdowns, defiance, and overwhelm — but what if those aren’t just “kid problems”?
What if they’re messages… signals that our children are absorbing more from our nervous system than from our words?