Coming Home to Yourself Before the Holidays

This season stirs up a lot.

Even when we love our families, even when we feel “fine,” the holidays tend to reopen the old roles we’ve worked so hard to outgrow.
You might feel yourself shrinking, over-functioning, or replaying a version of yourself you no longer want to be.

But here’s what’s different now:
You’ve done the work.
You don’t have to go back.

This time, you get to come home to yourself.

The Nervous System Knows

Before we talk mindset, let’s talk body.
Your nervous system is wise. It remembers holiday stress, tension, and old dynamics long before you walk through the door.

Which is why this moment—right before the holidays begin—is a sacred one.
A time to regulate.
To return to your center.
To remember who you are now.

You’re not the same woman you were last year.
So let’s give her a moment to breathe before the chaos starts.

You Don’t Need to Earn Rest

You’re allowed to take space.
You’re allowed to protect your peace.
You’re allowed to decline invitations, ask for help, or rework old traditions.

This is your season too.
And when you stay rooted in your current self—not the past version you once had to be—everything changes.

That’s what the inner work does:
It doesn’t fix the outer world, but it gives you the tools to meet it differently.

Get Grounded Before You Gather

If you’re feeling a bit stirred up or unsteady, now is the perfect time to recommit to your inner work.

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No matter what your calendar says, your peace comes first.
Come home to yourself first—and the rest will follow.